Village People

Meet long time Hassocks resident Judy Tilbury in our Village People feature

By Deirdre Huston

After having lived here for 58 years, Judy, aged 81, must be one of Hassocks longest residents. She was born in Framfield, near Uckfield. She remembers: “My father was the head gardener to Lord and Lady Fisher of Framfield Place, and it was phenomenal, reminiscent of Kew Gardens.” Judy hoped to get into grammar school, but she was ill on the day of her interview so instead, she stayed at the village school until she was 13, then progressed onto Uckfield County Secondary where she became Head Girl, and Head of the School Choir. She remembers singing live on Glyndebourne stage, in the finals of a Sussex singing competition. Sadly, Judy’s father was asthmatic, and he died young, leaving her mother with six children. Judy was sixteen, and along with her sister, she left school to work in a dry cleaner’s, shelving hopes of further education. At the dry cleaner’s, she learned how to hand press cocktail and evening dresses.

“My mum loved the sea, and we often went to Brighton or Eastbourne on the bus,” recalls Judy. “After my father’s death, she decided she wanted to move to Brighton.” The family moved to Hove, and Judy’s mother found work in a Jaeger factory, making coats and Judy helped while she waited to start a new job. Judy learned many sewing skills from her talented mum, who made absolutely all the family’s clothes, and her mother often recounted how, at age four, Judy asked to have a go, and her mum said: “You’ll prick your finger!” Judy took to it immediately, and sewing has become a lifelong endeavour. She began sewing for other people as a teenager in Framfield, making full circular skirts with can can petticoats to go dancing in. She used to make them for all her friends, and soon, someone asked her to make a dress, “It took off from there,” says Judy. “It was a great way to supplement our income.”

Judy still loves sewing today and makes personalised birth samplers, ring cushions and poems to order. She also makes samplers for the royal babies and is proud of letters of thanks she’s received. During lockdown, one of her swimming colleagues asked if she could make masks. The friend found a pattern and Judy made two. Then she made three for another friend. And it snowballed! “Sometimes, I was in the workroom at 5am.” All in all, Judy made 5000 masks, raising £8000 for Headway. The masks were a pound each, but many people donated extra.

If anybody would like to support her and make a donation, please go to www.justgiving.com and search for Headway Sussex

To read much more about Judy’s life and her connection with the village pick up a copy of January’s Hassocks Life magazine.

Brighton music to Hassocks Silver Rocket

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By Deirdre Huston

Matt McGuire and Ben McCully have known each other for about 15 years. Around 2008 to 2010, they used to be in a band together when they lived in Brighton. “It was very non-serious. We were messing about. We only did three gigs and then we split up and went in different musical directions,” recalls Ben.

And it wasn’t just music that was changing in their lives. Ben’s wife, Lucy, was teaching in Brighton and the couple were living in a two-bedroom flat at Seven Dials. “We had an eighteen-month-old daughter. We needed more space. On a whim, we came out to see Hassocks: the schools are good, there’s a train station, Brighton’s only ten minutes away. We didn’t know anybody, but we moved in and we’re still here! One by one, our mates followed.” Ben has seen some changes in the village: “the demographic has definitely changed. There are quite a few young people around in Hassocks which is great because it has injected an energy into the place.” After one of their gigs, Matt had met his wife, Sarah, and they also moved to Hassocks where they appreciated the peace and quiet and being able to hear the birds in the morning. Today, Ben’s daughter, Orla, has just started at Downlands while Matt has two children, Bob, at the Infants and Olive, at Windmills.

Ben works in Shoreham as an engineer for Ricardo, an engineering consultancy. He explains, “it’s predominantly been about engines of all sizes, from the small 2-stroke scooter engines to a huge power generation engine, but now some are moving electric which is interesting. The brewery is a nice diversion from my day job because it’s very different. It’s nice to do something creative. My job is quite high-pressure so it’s nice to step outside of that.”
“And I’m a freelance copywriter and full-time Dad,” adds Matt. “My wife’s a GP so I do a lot of our day-to-day childcare.”

Read more inside November’s Hassocks Life magazine to find out how the pair got into brewing and where the name Silver Rocket came from.

Village People - Jonathan Pearce

By Deirdre Huston

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Jonathan was born in Plymouth but grew up in Wadebridge, Cornwall. He was six weeks premature, and Rhesus Negative blood group, and needed a hospital birth. “I don’t think my dad ever forgave me for being born in Devon,” he jokes. His father was from tin mining stock, while his mother hailed from High Wycombe. One of Jonathan’s earliest memories is of sitting on his grandfather’s knee at four or five: “They sent me to get him out of the pub,” he admits. “During the Twenties, he was ‘The Trainer’ of Wycombe Wanderers football team, as they used to call him. He was a bad lad. After absconding with his work’s Christmas Club money, they caught him trying to board a cross-channel ferry from Brighton. But I loved him dearly.” Jonathan missed him when he died a year or two later. When the family moved to Bristol for his father to start a fresh job, Jonathan went into the first year of junior school. Although his father was a rugby man, Jonathan loved football and all he wanted to do was play for Bristol City. Jonathan’s father was a progressive man who believed in giving youth opportunities, and he worked as a Senior Lecturer in Electrical Engineering. The family lived on the same road as Bristol City manager Alan Dicks, and through him Jonathan’s father became involved with the club, taking on responsibility for the education of junior players. In 1972 Jonathan and his father started filming games for use in training, making Bristol City the first club in Europe to film games for tactical purposes. Jonathan explains how this helped him gain experience in football and media worlds: “I was meeting people in TV, and we travelled to games with journalists or on the First Team bus.” Still grappling with ambitions to play football, he reveals: “For about six months, I trained with the club, but I knew I wasn’t good enough. Then I broke my leg playing football at school and I was four months in plaster. I got a letter from Bristol City saying they didn’t want to take me on, and I locked myself in my room for two days. I was fifteen.” But Jonathan continued working with his dad, filming the games, and when he progressed on to Birmingham University, Alan sent him a lovely letter of thanks which, to this day, Jonathan treasures.
When Jonathan was a second year undergraduate, BBC Radio Bristol had a job vacancy covering Bristol City games. To pass the audition, Jon had to commentate over recordings of Bristol City games. Fortunately, those recordings were provided by Jonathan’s dad, enabling him to prepare thoroughly and, from then on, things fell into place. Jonathan admits: “I’ve been incredibly lucky.” But anyone familiar with his career can see that thorough research and a knack for presenting complex ideas succinctly have contributed much to his success. He learned journalistic skills at National Broadcast School but his big break came in 1987 when he was working for the BBC, and a friend from National Broadcast School, Andy Parkinson, was leaving Capital Radio to work at the BBC. Andy recommended Jonathan to talk to Capital because they were looking for someone to help set up sports coverage. Matthew Bannister appointed Jonathan to set up coverage of London football. Later, Richard Park gave Jonathan his first major platform, and Jonathan helped set up Capital Gold Sports. “We did a rights deal for six teams for £30,000 a year,” he comments. “Nowadays the rights are worth hundreds of thousands of pounds per club! And they allowed me to commentate in a way which mirrored the passion of football supporters.” Capital Gold Sports exploded on to the air and captured the London audience. Commentary from the 1990 World Cup was dubbed on to World in Motion, and the Three Lions ‘Football’s Coming Home’ song in 1996 when the version with the Capital Gold commentary outsold the one with the BBC commentary. Jonathan is quick to acknowledge the many people who helped his career, including his good friend Chris Tarrant, who frequently played Jonathan’s commentary on his breakfast show. “They bought lots of independent stations around the country and we built a radio empire,” remembers Jonathan. He became Group Head of Sport. “We had the rights for 72 out of 92 clubs in the country, including all the top clubs. He has been lucky enough to be awarded six Sony Radio Awards, four individual and two team, plus three New York Radio Festival Golds. “They gave us awards for being the Best Commentator, Presenter and then Sports Programmes in the world,” says Jonathan, laughing. He has fond memories of fantastic teamwork: “It was like Wild West radio. I was there for 15 years and laughed for 15 years, but we worked hard too. Eighteen hours a day, six days a week. At one stage we were banned from every pub down the Tottenham Court Road.” Jonathan met politicians, rock stars and actors, even Princess Diana. “There were some crazy times. At one big sports writers’ dinner, I remember two of the Capital Gold team with their trousers round their ankles on the dance floor next to Princess Anne and her husband. There were lots of tales which can’t be told, but we had such fun.” Jonathan has treasured memories of working with Bobby Moore, summarising their friendship with one simple statement: “He was one of the best men I’ve ever met in my life.” But things were changing and, when Richard Park left, Jonathan’s heart went out of it. In 2002 Bob Shennan, Head of Five Live Sport, enticed him back to the BBC.
To read more about Jonathan’s amazing career pick up an August copy of Hassocks Life.

Meet Hassocks milliner Anne Tomlin

Anne Tomlin, Hassocks milliner

Anne Tomlin, Hassocks milliner

Hassocks Life’s Deirdre Huston drops into Anne Tomlin’s studio to chat about nature, hats and the artistic life…

Photo: Ian Skelton

Photo: Ian Skelton

As we chatted, friendly cocker spaniels wandered in and out and the sun filtered through the window. Anne’s studio was chock-a-block with the rich colours of specimens from the natural world, an array of paint pots and examples of her spectacular, intricate and witty hats.

Anne’s love of making things, fabric and textiles goes back a long way. She learned to sew when she was about six. “My grandma was fantastic at sewing and made Fair Isle jumpers, all the very difficult stuff. She taught me and was my inspiration.”

Growing up in Somerset, Anne lived with her family in a woodman’s cottage on Lord Bath’s Estate. “From a very early age I went badger watching with my father. Glowworms lit up around the edges of the garden and wildflowers grew everywhere. It was here I got my love of nature.” She painted small detailed studies of what she saw. Later the family moved and Anne went to Frome Grammar School where she studied A-level Textiles. “I had the most amazing teachers who were just so enterprising and innovative.”

[Full story in April 2020 issue of Hassocks Life magazine]

Art that takes the biscuit - Village People

Kellie Miller, artist, Clayton -

Kellie Miller is a local artist who creates, curates and collects a multitude of art from all around the world. Having been highly sought-after for her ceramics in Japan at the beginning of the millennium, she’s now settled in Clayton and has turned her house and garden into a beautiful display of work featuring a number of renowned international artists.

By Joe Wayte

Kellie Miller was born and grew up in Battersea before venturing down to Brighton University to study 3D design. “I always wanted to be an artist,” Kellie said confidently, “my course included a mix of woodwork, paint, ceramics and more besides, so over the years I’ve worked with lots of different materials.”

In 2002 Kellie was offered an artist’s residency by the Arts Council which took her to Shigaraki in Japan. She was later selected for her second international exhibition for which she fired 101 cups to create a conceptual piece of art, inspired by the book The Art of Possibility. “The cups were sold individually after the exhibition,” she explained, “with the idea that they’re like seeds, going off into the world, and maybe one day, somehow, they’ll all come back together.”

Having spent a lot of time in the country, Kellie says she has a deep love for Japan and is still influenced by its culture today. “Going to Japan is like going to the moon,” she described, “you’ve got to experience it at least once in your life.”

Kellie has always based herself in the South of England. In 1996 she founded the Biscuit Studio in Hove, which was initially a centre for ceramics artists. Over the years, aspiring artists of all medias have rented space in its inspiring environment.

It was at the studio that Kellie met her husband, Kim, who lived in the house adjacent to Biscuit Studio. “The studio didn’t have its own toilet,” she explained, “and when new tenants arrived in the unit next door they denied us access to the facilities we’d been using since we opened.” Kim came to her rescue and offered Kellie a key to his house so that she could use his loo until the issue was resolved. 12 years after they first met, Kellie and Kim were married in 2011.

[Excerpt from full article printed in Issue No2 Hassocks Life magazine - June 2019]

Mr Wignall - Village People interview

Mark Wignall, Downlands Community College

By David Tingley

If you want to learn something about community, just have a chat with Mark Wignall, Headteacher at Downlands Community School.

Although born in London, Mark spent most of his childhood in the Midlands – living just down the road from the Cadburys factory; anyone who has heard him talk in an assembly has heard his soft ‘brummy’ accent. Mark has been married to Lynne for 24 years and they have three children Ellen, Harry and Joe. He describes his devotion to Birmingham City Football Club as ‘a life sentence’!

Mark has always been keen on sport. He has always loved rugby, football, cricket and squash, to name but a few, so it is no surprise that he went on to study Sports Science at Brighton Polytechnic. “I didn’t know what I wanted to do at the time, but I did love sport,” he explains, “although there weren’t as many options for a Sports Science graduate back then.”

Mark started his working life as a fitness instructor in the gym at the House of Commons; a role which ranged from designing personal fitness programmes for MPs, to collecting towels. After moving up to Harrogate to work at a luxury hotel doing a similar role, it wasn’t long before Mark asked himself: ‘Is this the rewarding career I really want?’. After some soul-searching, he returned to Sussex to complete a Post Graduate Certificate in Education (PGCE) with a view to being a teacher. Placements during his course were in secondary schools in Bexhill and Cuckfield.

[Read the full story in the May 2019 issue of Hassocks Life magazine…]